*is not even gonna bother to explain this*
We're not giving you a hard time, you're the one who's making it hard on your self. Don't spam and you'll see that posting here goes easier, but again you're only doing this to yourself.
Maybe you check out this:
http://forums.ffshrine.net/showthread.php?s=&threadid=6151
It could very well be the difference between staying and the other if you follow it.