I cant find it:( . Isnt it in that snow place after you finish snowboarding?

it is there you first have to tuck a hot spring then go talk to this woman or if it is a woman and fight it then you get that materia but hot to get there depeneds on where you land

First off you need to go to the spring and touch it. To get to the springs head south once your in the snowy part where you can place the landmarks, and head through until you get to a place where it splits into 2 roads, either to the right or left. Dont take either and instead go to one of the sides(cant remember which) and press circle and itll ask if you want to touch it. Say yes. Now go back to the snowy place and head west, and after a bit you should see a cave. Go in and talk to the person there and after you win the fight you can pick up the Alexander materia

*points to sticky topic**closes*